
Recently someone shared with me about a meeting they were in that had impacted them. During the meeting a name of someone was mentioned and the next thing you know, everyone in the room became as vultures over a dead carcass. They were all chiming in with shots to the character and the performance of this person. Finally, this leader (a real leader) spoke up. ‘Let’s look at the total of this person’s contributions, not just this last performance.’ This leader was then feeling the volley of critique coming at him. This attitude is not unique to his situation but rather rampant in our world. Losing sight of the big picture is the beginning of small-hearted behavior. One of my early pastoral mentors told me: ‘To some people you will only be as good as your last sermon, or wedding or funeral.’ The heart condition present in the meeting that the leader shared with me and the lesson that my mentor shared are the same. It is a heart condition of pettiness. It is the exact opposite of generosity. Where pettiness is allowed to grow, it soon takes over the culture of any organization, team or town. It thrives in people who have a propensity of pointing out the flaws in others, and hopes this will shield them from any criticism. In our own hurt and pain, we can be on the attack, rather than protecting one another. Some people have become ‘detectives’ on the search for flaws in others. Pettiness is basically being too fixated on the little things in life, and missing out on the big picture. Pettiness magnifies little things out of proportion. Pettiness lacks the generosity that we so freely receive from God. It lacks grace. Pettiness makes one bitter, not better. It is the result of a small heart. A child comes home and says: “Daddy, Daddy, I got 95 points out of 100 on my Math test” A petty father will say things like, what happened to the other 5 points? Pettiness lets the 5% become so big that it overwhelms the 95% obtained. The parable of the Unmerciful Servant is a lesson on forgiveness on the basis of being forgiven first. Jesus uses this parable to teach the disciples that the essence of forgiveness is to remember that we are huge beneficiaries of the greatest forgiveness ever given to men. A man owes the king 10000 talents. In modern terms, it would be equivalent to several million dollars. This man is unable to pay, so the king orders that he and his entire family be sold to repay the debt. After pleading his case and wanting to be put on some payment plan, the king cancels the debt. Freedom and forgiveness are extended. Unfortunately, the story does not end in gratitude. It ends in greed and ungracious behavior. The servant quickly forgets his canceled several million dollar debt. He pounces on one of his fellow servants over a small debt of a few 1,000 dollars. Imagine someone who just received a several million-dollar gift refusing to forgive another over a few 1,000? Pettiness! Grace is the opposite of pettiness. Like a coin, grace has two faces. The first side receives grace and mercy. The second side gives grace and mercy, gratitude and generosity. Rise above pettiness, live big-hearted and full of grace and forgiveness.
There are people in your life who need an extension of grace and forgivness – go ahead and be the one to bring it. Be generous.
Grace to you,
Pastor Bernie




I am so grateful to any of you that assisted us in providing food for the over 35 families from LFC, toys for a few others and helping some outside our walls as well. Thanks to those in our choir, worship team, children and others who are participating in our two Christmas Eve services, at 5 and 7 pm. I am praying for all the people that have been invited to come to our services and to those of you who will be bringing others with you that don’t now the Savior.
The Gospel of Jesus Christ cannot be really lives without being shared. It will be shared through our words and service, attitude and compassion and when it is shared, it will bring forth fruit. As we are reading through the book of Colossians I have had a great reminder of the power of the Gospel – the Good News of Jesus ad the fruit it produces.
C. S. Lewis once wrote, “Our delight in what we enjoy is incomplete until it is expressed.” How true that is when we express our gratitude to God. We actually become more complete, more whole, more of who God has made us to be. There is something even more fundamental to this call to be grateful. It’s more than just an opportunity to give thanks for the many gifts you’ve been given. It’s more than just the fact that it’s good for your soul.